Life goals - Past, Present & Future

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We always think that our past was good than our present. Wherever we go whatever we do we always love the days which are passed!! Isn’t it? That’s true but let me tell you life is now it’s very much in present, what we are doing now is going to be past by every passing second. I never say don’t live in past. I am myself inclined towards the things which I have done in past, all the good and bad things because definitely I have risked every moment to survive and to become what I am today..!!!!

I have been the kind of person who lived on the good moments I spent in the past!!! But it was very soon I realised live in the past but for the good things you have done and learn from the bad things.

The access points of growth is in taking risks which are in the present. Taking risks in whatever we do is totally “To each his own”, there are times when people tell you to take risks in life but you might not be ready to take that risk as you might be either frightened or not in a position to take that risk. It can’t be said a risk taker is always happy or one who doesn’t take risk is sad.!!! It’s the situation which you’re into which decides you will be happy or sad!!!!! Life goals of every individual are different. There are no ideal life goals for any human being or it can be said that life goals of every individual changes with time, this statement is also at times wrong.!!!! Question is why? Because we have stopped loving our life and being happy in what we have or we have achieved in life.!!!! Everybody is competing with the world, trying to achieve the best for themselves. It’s human nature and tendency but for a second go back and think what we have today we use to dream about this life 5 years or let’s say 10 years back..!!!! All we had back then was everything except a good job with salary, freedom to do anything we want, live life our own way.!!!! But we still had love of parents which some unfortunate people might not have, curiosity to look upto new things happening around which we don’t have now.!!!! We are busy in racing ourselves to earn money and compete.

STOP BEING DISSATISFIED WITH WHAT YOU HAVE NOW!!

Yes be competitive but at the same time be happy in what you have..!!!! The ultimate Life goal is to be fully SATISFIED in what you are and what you have in present, don’t do comparisons. Everyone’s struggle is different.!!!!

The ultimate Life Goal which I follow -  “Learn from past live in present and leave future to what god has written for you.” You’ll surely be carefree if you live with this Life Goal.!!!

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