Dee Jay - Amateur Blogger

Your decisions will not change the world, but your world will! Take care of your body and your mind, eat, exercise, read, study, feed on wisdom and good food ... Make there a homeostasis between your body and your mind. Enjoy it and when you start enjoying it, you will not need anything else to be happy because for the simple fact of feeling good about yourself, you will not need anything else to feel complete. I nurture in a healthy way all my daily habits. This is "Self-Care".

Have you heard of the "Dichotomy of Control"? It is a philosophical term that expresses the two parts of the control of the human being, on the one hand what can be controlled and on the other what we cannot do anything about. People have a tendency to focus on what they can't do anything about, just complaining about it and poisoning themselves with negative messages, leaving aside and not thinking about everything that they CAN do, that they can achieve and that out of laziness and lack of enthusiasm for life, he cannot see. Focus on what you can, not what you cannot achieve, get profitability in your time ... which is another. 🙂

Please note I don't intend to demotivate or spread negativity with this post but want to let other people fight with these ,similar to how i do! Never say 'That won't happen to me' As life has a funny way of proving us wrong! starting with this all we can say is there is a continuous Uncertainty which revolves around everyone's life, uncertainty doesn't sees Rich nor Poor. Nobody can eliminate the uncertainties from their lives. It may sound very negative but that's how it is. I have been trying to cope up with the negativeness inside me, my family my friends force me to be positive all the time(which is obviously correct at their part), however whenever i start anything new i always keep it in my mind that i will never let any kind of negativity get inside me, but the very next moment my mind always tend to think the negative things about what i am trying to start in a strange way!! I don't have control over it at all! Hence! I don't think too

We always think that our past was good than our present. Wherever we go whatever we do we always love the days which are passed!! Isn’t it? That’s true but let me tell you life is now it’s very much in present, what we are doing now is going to be past by every passing second. I never say don’t live in past. I am myself inclined towards the things which I have done in past, all the good and bad things because definitely I have risked every moment to survive and to become what I am today..!!!! I have been the kind of person who lived on the good moments I spent in the past!!! But it was very soon I realised live in the past but for the good things you have done and learn from the bad things. The access points of growth is in taking risks which are in the present. Taking risks in whatever we do is totally “To each his own”, there are times when people tell you to take risks in life but you might not be ready to take that risk as you might be either frightened or not in a position to